Friday, July 5, 2024

Raising Baby 7: Self Actualization

Self-actualization as an individuation, or process of becoming “self.”
The individual realizes that one’s self and one’s environment are two pieces of a greater whole) and acts as a primary driving force of behavior in humans (Whitehead, 2017).

5. Self-actualization needs are the highest level in Maslow’s hierarchy, and refer to the realization of a person’s potential, self-fulfillment, seeking personal growth, and peak experiences. Of course, those who are well adjusted have the need for self-actualization throughout life.


This need can generally be thought of as the full realization of one’s creative, intellectual, and social potential through internal drive (versus for external rewards like money, status, or power).

Since self-actualization is based on leveraging one’s abilities to reach their potential, it is a very individual process and will probably vary significantly from person to person.

This focus on individual motivations is a key part of Maslow’s work, and what he felt differentiated it from the contemporary motivational psychology. “What a man can be, he must be. This need we may call “self actualization” (Maslow, 1943).

As puppy grows, the need for self-actualization helps him or her adjust. Baby needs time to adjust to who he or she is.

With a new puppy in the home, it’s up to parents to understand that puppy is not being mischievous or even naughty.

Puppy is trying to discover what he or she likes and dislikes, as well as, boundaries. We find ourselves saying, “Puppy’s getting more and more independent, isn’t he?”

As puppy grows, the little fella begins to explore and test his or her new environment and discover what’s interesting. This is a phase. It will pass either with a good outcome or a bad habit. The difference depends on the puppy mom or dad,

Never raise your voice to puppy. Never scold puppy. Smile. Explain. Give puppy a toy that belongs to him. End with a pat and “good dog” no matter what.

Samson does things like choosing what toy he wants to play with or he might reject a food he dislikes. Lately, he’s been getting his blanket out of his bed and then drags it down the hall to the family room. He lays down on it with an obvious sense of satisfaction.///